I haven't been asked out in over 2 years, and the last guy that asked me out was like 40 years old with grey hair and a gold tooth! I feel invisible, guys don't even LOOK at me for ore than a second. I'm 22, I've never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, or even talked to a guy on the phone, plus I'm shy and have always been teased (mainly by guys) growing up because of the way I look. What do I do? Men please be HONEST, would you ask me out? Do you find me attractive? If you're honest it won't hurt my feelings, because I've already heard it all. Help me out...How do I deal with the fact I'm not one of the "beautiful people" and I'm apart of the "ugly people?
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Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? You look good to me.
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? SMILE honey..... :)
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? im not a guy but, you just need to smile and get fixed up...but not like to the extreme just like a natural look.......but you are not ugly
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? i u sad guys answer only but i wanted to say first thing i think you should fell pretty before anything chage its up a lil try side bangs or get a young kool hair cute like rihana sure it sound stupid but try something new and you wil fell pretty and when you fell pretty guys come to you easily
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? mascara and a smile do the trick and have CONFIDENCE in yourself guys like that
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? I wish I had lips like that. I think you have amazing features but you know what is ugly? The lack of confidence , everyone agree? If this girl was smiling and laughing in the picture with a glow of confidence every guy would be wanting to spend time with you.
Girl, stop being so gloomy, you ARE pretty, i know i'm not a guy but i'm just telling you the truth. A lot of girls are only "pretty" because they wear 10lbs of makeup and dye their hair and guess what- that's not even them thats pretty. it's the fake image that guys find attractive.
Beautiful is a confidant natural woman.
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? I know you wanted guys to answer this, but you are not unfortunate or ugly. You have some nice features but you need to bring them out. Take care of yourself and be more confident. Maybe a trendy hairstyle or some cute clothes can help with your looks. You are NOT one of the ugly people, believe me, I've seen way worse. With a little help and maintanence you can be one of the "beautiful people". I think part of the reason you feel ugly is because you have given up. You should visit the Beauty %26amp; Style section to get ideas on how to spruce yourself up.
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? First off, you need to smile. Pretty is, is pretty does. Your face has possibilities. Sometimes if we doen't fit into what the world thinks we should be, its just easier to stay the way we are. Pull your hair up and smile baby, your beautiful!!
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? ur pretty. sorry i know im not a guy but im a girl and all girls feel not beautiful sometimes and heres what i think- if u dont like something about urself such as a hair style, wait, clothing, or anything else it could be dont just go and say im ugly go and change that! this will make urself feel much better. also try to push urself to talk to men also this will be much easier to do if u feel great personally i love to go and dress up and then i feel like i could do anything. do the same do something for ur self that will make u feel better about urself also u have very pretty always know that also have fun with it try new things dont miss out on ur life because ur shy because one day u will regreat it and that wont be good so live ur life so when u look back u can say i had so much fun!
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? trust me your not ugly. you just need to smile and look confident more. plus in the pic it looks like your tired. just put some makeup on, perk up, and feel pretty. then your beauty will shine right through.
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? Smiling and having self confidence. That'll make you pretty. Do things that make you happy. Wear things that make you feel like you're worth it. All of us girls have one body feature we love of ourselves and like to show off (though don't exaggerate). But mainly I'd say confidence, if you show you are happy with yourself others will see that.
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? Okay, obviously I'm not a guy, but I felt compelled to answer you.
You're not ugly at all. You have a pretty face and gorgeous hair. Do you wear makeup and style your hair when you go out? If you don't already do that, I believe that would make all the difference.
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? I think you can get guys to notice you if you do these things.
In six months the guys will be knocking down your doors.
You have a nice shaped profile face. I couldn't see the
rest of you so here goes.
l. If you need to loose a few pounds certain places start
working out in the gym now. there are a lot of guys in gyms.
2. Get a nice hair style and makeover that suits your
profile. There are plenty of cosmetic specialist that
can work with you. Onlce they give you the look you
can do it yourself.
3 Wear clothing that compliment your physique until you
get the body you want.
4. Change your attitude and be more complimentary
and greet people with a smile always, not just for their
benefit but to improve your persona.
5. Remember the results you get may be a reflection tat
you giving others. There are plenty of women out there
not as good looking as you that have dates and boy-
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Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? you dont look ugly but u dont look beautiful either....... just be pashint and ull get somebody. In japan all the ugly girls got married and all the beautiful girls dont because the ugly girls suported the men... basickly if u dont support men in japan u wont get married or even asked out so why not move to japan when you can and i hope this makes you feal better
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? I think you're pretty. But to bring that prettiness out you need to go to a hair salon and just go wild!! =P
Best thing to do (this is what I do) is to tell the hairdresser to do your hair the way they think it should be. Then... you need to go wild with your makeup. Makeup is no good if noone sees it. =P
Good luck!
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? I'm sorry to drop in but I got tired of answering Car questions and couldn't help jumping in on this one..
First I'm 54 and been around. I've seen a lot of women who weren't even close to looking as good as you do, but they thought they did. The confidence that they displayed in theirselves showed like a beacon and that made them pretty..
And that's not just my opinion ,, It's proven fact.
You've got a lot going for you and as long as you light up that beacon you will SHINE so smile and have a good life..
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? You're not a bad looking woman, don't listen to those other people because they probably don't have confidence in themselves either.
My advice to you is to workout religiously, get your body in the best physical shape, get your hair done every two weeks, buy some new clothes that accent your body. I know you know how to put on makeup; you don't need a lot, just a little. Show some confidence in yourself and someone will notice you.
A few adjustments and you've got action......work with what you have, stop thinking you're ugly.......the man you start dating will be the man you least expect anyway.
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? Hi I am NOT a man but I think you are a pretty young lady! Don't put yourself down! I was very shy like you when I was your age too, do you belong to any groups like a church group? If not perhaps if you join one and get to know more people your age.
This works for all ladies, try a new way to wear your hair, you don't have to cut your hair it is a nice looking length. Get some pretty hair Barret's or rubber bands.
Go to your local store like CVS, Walgreen's or Rite Aid and buy a liquid make up foundation, they have all different skin tone colors, hold the bottle up to your hand to match the one closest to your skin tone. If you wear a touch of black liquid eyeliner on the outer edge of your upper and lower eye lids that enhances the eyes and if you want get some black mascara [don't get the water proof so it comes off easier ]with a touch of earth tone color blush and a nice earth tone color lipstick.
Please believe in yourself, learn to like yourself and tell yourself you are NOT ugly! Attitude changes everything! The more you believe in yourself, the more confident you will become and the more people will be attracted to you.
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? You're not ugly but you DEFINITELY need to fix up...A LOT.
1. Your hair! Brush it or style it.
2. You look a little overweight. Pick up running, shed some pounds and get some feminine curves.
3. Your nose: this may be extreme but you would really benefit from rhinoplasty. Your nose will come out smaller and sharper, perkier.
4. Is it an overbite that you have or is it your lips? If it's an overbite, consider braces.
5. Put some makeup on!
6. Wear pretty girly clothes not those sports jerseys.
You'll look and feel great afterwards!
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? Okay, I am not a guy, but I could just hear the pain and honesty coming through in your question.
You have some lovely features, pretty dark eyes, nice eyebrows that set off your eyes nicely; and beautiful full lips that a lot of women are paying to have.
You need to smile more and let your smile light up your face.
You look grim and may come across as being mean or distant because of that. If you train yourself to smile more, you will feel better and happier, it will become more natural to you.
You must have some women friends that can help you out with a makeover, or treat yourself to a spa day and get a new fresh haircut. A new hairstyle can really make a girl feel great, I just had some highlights put in for the winter and everyone has been telling me how great I look....it just makes you feel good.
Talk to one of your friends or coworkers, someone whose style you like and admire; I am sure they will be happy to help you out. When I see a woman wearing something I think might look good on me, I ask them where they got it and compliment them on how it looks on them. It's amazing how helpful women are to each other.
Your facial features reminded me a bit of Queen Latifah and she always talks about herself as being a very plain person. She has the positive attitude, and that is what is shining through her inner beauty.
So smile, and make a few changes for yourself and you will find yourself getting asked for dates in no time.
Have a good day, and smile, smile, smile.
Isn't this girl ugly? How do I cope with being considered ugly? (men answer)? smile, excersize, and don't get pregnant!
